Wayne Stocks wrote a series called "
The Non-Negotiables," which can be read on
Kidmin1124. As volunteers, parents, spouses, workers, ministers, etc, we all face the battle for time. (As Andy Stanley points out in
Choosing to Cheat, we need to make courageous decisions about how we use our time, since whatever choice we make will ultimately cheat someone else who wants that time.) The tendency for those of us who do ministry (whether paid or unpaid) is "to let our ministry become the main thing in our lives. After all, we are doing the work of God, right?" But Stocks reminds us that our priorities need to be in this order:
- God (not doing His work, but growing and trusting in Him)
- Marriage (if applicable)
- Children (again, if applicable)
- Community (such as church)
- Ministry
In the 5th post in this series, about
children, the author points out that our children don't just need
quality time; they need
quantity time as well. He then gives more specific direction for Dads:
- With regards to their sons, Dads need to model godliness, love, protect, and teach.
- With regards to their daughters, Dads need to love, show respect, lead, affirm, and be humble.
Read the full article
here.
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